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AIO for asking my parents to leave after my mom grabbed my wife’s belly and asked if she was pregnant ?

We all have them, for better or for worse – parents. As we grow older and stop being children, we still lean on them for advice or an alternate perspective, not to mention the stories they have told us over the years. But even the best of parents can make mistakes.

Take this newlywed couple’s experience. His parents bought a new house an hour away from their home. They were invited for dinner and… you’ll see.

My (29m) beautiful wife (30f) had gained a significant amount of weight after our wedding. I think she’s gorgeous but she’s insecure about how she looks now. My mom (49f) and dad (53m) had bought a house that is an hour drive from us

The 4 of us were supposed to have a lovely dinner at my home. My parent had arrived early and my wife hadn’t changed out of her cooking clothes. She was wearing this tight t shirt.

So they arrived early, that’s not good. Aren’t they the generation that taught us to be fashionably late? But wait, there’s more! and by that I mean it gets worse.

My mom saw my wife, my mom grabbed my wife’s belly and asked my wife if she was pregnant. My wife said no, that she’s just getting fat. I didn’t want a massive argument so I rushed my parents out. Basically telling them we have reschedule, congratulations on the new house, and we’ll save them some food. I then assured my wife as she started to cry.

I understand the mom getting excited and acting without thinking. Even with that ah should have known better than to grab her belly. But the husband did exactly the right thing. They needed to be removed from the situation before they could make it worse, which absolutely would have happened if the day had continued. Especially since the wife cried as soon as they left, there is no way she would have held herself together for long.

Several days later, I talked to my parents by myself. My mom said that she had made a mistake but I had taken it too far by asking them to leave. I basically explained that I only seen that evening getting worse. My dad said that by not allowing my mom to apologize on that day, that I made them seem like jerks to my wife. I told my parents my mom can apologize now but my parents say that now it will seem to my wife that they’re apologizing because I told them to. Am I overreacting ?

So it’s good that mom acknowledges she made a mistake. But the Husband clearly knows his parents and he knew it wasn’t gonna get better. They prove it with their refusal to apologize. They have their excuses but the wife deserves an apology and for the parents to wax poetic about how beautiful she is, preferably focusing on how she looks better than she did at the wedding!

What are your thoughts? Comment below!

So I left off with my Deck coming back to me via FedEx, and I have since picked it up and the only thing iffy with it is the R1 button is a bit mushy. It still works, and I wasn’t going to send it back for another period of time without it, so I am dealing with it.

It doesn’t even matter right now anyway because I find myself using it as more of a home console. It’s plugged into a dock, which is connected to my TV. I’ve always been a handheld person (my first video games were on a game boy pocket) so this is unusual for me but I’m really enjoying it and I’m starting to see what people see in playing games on the couch.

Granted the Deck itself is heavy enough that most of the joy in this new (to me) configuration is probably from using a lightweight steam controller instead of holding the heavy Steam Deck itself in my hands.

Oh one more thing: I reinstalled the 2TB SSD that my previous botched attempt led to this saga and – making sure to use a size 1 Phillips screwdriver – it worked without a problem!

So last time , I tried to upgrade my steam deck SSD and ended up with a strange button problem. I ultimately had to send it in for repair, and it was stressful waiting for stretches of up to a week at a time without an update.

It didn’t help that this reddit thread (among others) had me worried my Deck would be in limbo for a month and a half. This turned out not to be the case, as this morning I got a tracking number for FedEx to bring it back!

It arrived at the facility April 29, and it is scheduled to return to me on Monday, May 19, 2025. I can’t wait!

I tried to upgrade the SSD in my steam deck recently, and in the process I stripped a screw. As I went in blind, without a guide or tips from Reddit or anything of the sort, I learned the hard way that the screws holding down the thermal shield require a Phillips size 1 screwdriver bit. I used size 0, which not only stripped the screw but nearly stripped others and most importantly, caused bits of metal dust to spread around in my steam decks innards.

No it didn’t short or fry or anything devastating. Instead I had the strangest error: my B and X buttons, starting about 24 hours after the upgrade and reoccurring about a minute after every boot, both register as pressed at the same time. When I press B, both B and X register as pressed. When I press X, same thing.

I’m not completely certain if the stripped screw and the metal dust are the cause of this issue but what else could it be? Especially since it started about 24 hours after the upgrade, so I’m assuming the dust traveled around before causing the problem.

In the end I was resigned to sending in my steam deck to be repaired by Valve, and I’ll update when I have a diagnosis.

TLDR: when messing around the inside of your steam deck, be super careful and be sure to have both Phillips screwdriver sizes 0 and 1, and above all, be cautious and don’t force it.

If your screw gives you trouble, try the next size up. If it doesn’t fit at all, try the size down. This last part goes for electronics and screws in general.

So for those readers who might be unaware, EmuDeck is the premier way to play retro games on Steam Deck. It’s basically a collection of emulators tied together in an easy to setup package.

Personally, I have just a small collection of retro games I play, but no matter what size your collection is, it can and will accommodate your entire archive.

So what’s so special about this new version? Well it isn’t a complete overhaul, (I expect that would be version 3.0) but there are some nice improvements that make it rise above a regular update.

• Integration selection during setup

What this means is you can pick and choose how you want your roms organized at the beginning of the installation process. For those with large collections of retro games that would benefit from a frontend software to keep it organized, the ESDE option will add Emulation Station to Steam automatically and organize your files within that.

For those with smaller collections, the Steam Rom Manager integrates the individual games directly into your Steam deck library as Non-Steam games.

Any readers who have used EmuDeck before will immediately recall that both options have always been part of EmuDeck. But the key difference here is now it’s less work to make it happen. Just select and it’ll do the rest. Before, one would need to use Steam Rom Manager after setup to add either the games or ESDE or both and honestly it has mixed results sometimes. This new version should make both options easier.

• New emulators!

EmuDeck now supports newcoming emulators Azahar for 3ds and Citron for switch! Citron is supported on a BYOD basis (bring your own download) meaning if you find and download it yourself EmuDeck will get it set up for you. Windows users also get access to the Supermodel(Sega Model 3 Arcade, Model2 (Sega Model2 Arcade) and BigPEmu (Jaguar) emulators.

• Other improvements and tweaks

Improved Bios Checkers and better parsers in Steam Rom Manager, along with a new help guide and a new location in your drive for Emudeck’s file to live in. Future updates will feature a new program to organize your rom library.

Did you know Oreo is a ripoff? It’s true: the first cookie recipe to have two chocolate cookies held together by white stuff is Hydrox, established in 1908. It was made by Sunshine Biscuits for 91 years, when it was discontinued three years after the Keebler elves bought Sunshine. Keebler got bought by Kellogg, and Kellogg later sold Keebler to Ferrero. It wasn’t until 2015 that Leaf brands acquired the Hydrox rights and brought it back to market.

These days, Oreo is King, and for decades used it’s marketing clout to push Hydrox off shelves. These days, the only way to get Hydrox in to either buy it on Amazon, 6 boxes to a case, or if you can convince your local supermarket to stock it, Leaf brands is more than happy to distribute it to your neighborhood store.

Last week, I was randomly wondering what happened to Hydrox and discovered it could be ordered on Amazon. I know people are generally leery of purchasing anything on Amazon that goes into your mouth, but I took the risk – For Science!

The box arrived on Christmas eve, pretty good considering the original delivery estimate was the Saturday after Christmas. Naturally I dug in right away, and ate quite a few.

First: the cookie:

I feel it’s ever so slightly, just a tad more crumbly than Oreo. Now granted, this could simply be due to the fact of it being shipped to my door, but my typical Oreo experience doesn’t involve nearly as many broken cookies as this first case of Hydrox. In terms of taste, the chocolate flavor shines, but not quite as much as an Oreo cookie. Its close, but not to close to call. I have to give this to Oreo.

Cookie scores:
Oreo 10/10, Hydrox 9/10.

Next, The White Stuff: Hydrox is the clear winner here. Not only is the Hydrox white stuff not as cheaply-sweet tasting as Oreo, and not only is it enhanced with vanilla flavor, but there’s more of it. It’s not quite equivalent to a double stuff Oreo, but you can see the difference right away. Oreo’s White Stuff is basically sugary lard and honestly the least interesting part of the cookie unless you are A: Weird Al, or B: going for one of the myriad of other flavors, like Dark Chocolate, Peanut butter, or Tiramisu, to name a few. That is outside the scope of this article though, as those flavors are not the same as The White Stuff.

White Stuff Scores:
Oreo 6/10, Hydrox 10/10.

Dunkability: ok, this one is pending because I haven’t dunked any cookies in decades due to lactose intolerance. I literally thought of it now while trying to end this without a third category. Thanks to my recent personal discovery of Lactaid pills, I can investigate after all! But not tonight. I need to get a new box of Oreos, and stock up on Lactaid pills, and the stores are closed where I am right now.

See you soon for the dunkability report, and send me your thoughts in the comments!

So I have a Steam Deck, and if you have one you know most games sold on Steam have a compatibility rating. On valve’s rating scale, a game is Verified, Playable, Unsupported, or Unknown.

Verified means it works out of the box, Playable means it works but there may be some little things that impact the experience, like launchers not supporting gamepads and needing to use the touchscreen or touchpads to start the game; or games where the text is too small on the Deck’s screen get this rating as well.

So this rating system is all well and good, and it’s clearly better than nothing, but Valve hasn’t tested every game, and you might want to play a game in your deck that says Unsupported or Unknown. That’s where ProtonDB comes in.

So The Steam Deck runs on Linux, not Windows, which is why Valve developed Proton, to run Windows games on Linux at a compatibility never before seen with predecessor programs like Wine or similar commercial solutions like Crossover for Mac. ProtonDB is a website designed to cover the gaps in Valves Deck compatibility ratings. It rates games as Native, Platinum, Gold, Silver, bronze or borked. Native means it is a game specifically designed to run on Linux. Platinum is reserved for those Windows games that run perfectly without any tinkering whatsoever. Gold means a tiny bit of tinkering, such as switching over to a specific version of Proton instead of the default, and silver means more tinkering than Gold. Borked means no amount of settings or files changed will get it to work.